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But I also know that you are hurting and feeling low right now. I know that you just went through a break up and now you are looking for ways to get your ex back.

You've come to the right place. In this blog, I'm giving you the tips and steps to take to get you in the right path to getting your lover back.

You'll find very powerful steps here that many relationship experts prescribe to get your ex lover back.

Be strong and stay focused. Read on and you'll get what you came here for.

Tuesday, October 23, 2012


How do I get my ex back after he dumped me? This seems to be the question everyone, who just went through a devastating break up asks. Still very much in love, you still hope that you can get back together with an ex, and you endlessly search for answers.

Find the answers with the tips and advice in this blog. A section is also dedicated to a review of the recommended resources, the top 3 top e-books on relationship, specifically on how to get an ex back.

How to Get An Ex Back After He Dumped You

He promised you the moon but he left you in tears. You miss him terribly and you ask if its really over between you and your ex boyfriend. Will he ever come back? How do you get your ex back after he dumped you?

As the picture depicts, your grief is immeasurable and you’re looking for ways to ease your pain and misery.

I know how it feels to be dumped and to want your ex back. I was like that too, when my boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me.

But although you feel that this is the end of the road for you and your ex, it does not necessarily mean that the relationship is over. There is hope of getting him back. You may think that it’s easier said than done, but believe me, many relationships have gone through the cycle of breaking up and making up, and many couples have gotten back together

In this blog, I’ll share with you the method I used to get my ex back after he dumped me. So read on and smile, for soon the  love of your life will be knocking on your door never to leave you again.

Break Up Woes  - What To Do?

But before you even delve into the question of how to get your ex back, there’s a more pressing issue that you have to deal with before anything else.

Think about and consider the reasons for the break up. Is the relationship worth saving?  Was it an abusive relationship, or was your ex abusive physically and/or mentally, controlling, mean, or possessive? Did you or he cheat? If any of these things is true, I suggest you think long and hard about going back to that kind of relationship. It’s vital at this point that you let logic prevail in dealing with the issues and come up with the right decision.

But let’s take it that you truly love your ex and decided that you want to get him back even after he dumped you. You realized that your relationship wasn’t so bad after all, except maybe for a few glitches that can be repaired. And you feel in your heart that it will work given another chance

So, what to do?

Girl in Despair
Photo by Alyssa L. Miller, on Flickr

Here are the steps that will turn that ex-boyfriend of yours into your precious “beau”  once again....

6 Steps To Get Your Ex Back After He Dumped You and Make Him Beg You To Take Him Back

1.         Gather Your Strength           

The first thing to do is to gather your strength and get ready to go through the break up process. You need to be in control of your emotions and being strong emotionally will get you through the whole ordeal.

2.         Let him go

Accept the breakup calmly and let your ex boyfriend go without any more arguments or confrontation. If you need to talk or cry, go to your family and friends for the support you need. Do not show your ex that you’re crying and trying to cling to him. Holding on to him will only strengthen his resolve to stay away from you. So be smart and keep your agony to yourself.

3.         Take a leave of absence from your ex. Cut off all communications with him, at least for now

It would help to actually do nothing for the time being. Don’t go out chasing your ex, it will only create more damage than good to your already broken relationship.

As much as the breakup is hurting, it wouldn’t help if you continuously call him and leave him messages non-stop. Give your ex boyfriend the space he needs and he’ll realize how important you are to his life. This way, he’ll have all the time to miss you. Keep in mind that when you try too hard, the other party will pull away.  If he loves you (chances are he still loves you if you’ve been together long), he will definitely miss you and call.

4.         Reinvent your self – Improve your looks and have a new perspective in life and your relationship

Take advantage of your ex's absence to re-invent yourself, both your physical appearance and your disposition. Have you been neglecting your looks? Go to a salon and get a new hairdo and put on some make up. Buy new dresses and shoes. Most importantly, through some friends, make sure your ex hears about your new looks. He will definitely fall to his knees when he sees you looking more gorgeous and more confident than ever.

5.                  Go out with friends and have fun

It will help to have your friends around for support and to find things to do that will get your mind off of your ex. Attend social events like art exhibits, concerts, parties, or participating in clubs, or take up a new hobby that will give your self esteem a boost. When you are depressed, it is always good to be out socializing and meeting new people.

6.         Just wait for your ex to make the move to win you back

All you have to do now is wait for your ex to make the move to win you back. As soon as he hears about how hot you look now and about your social activities, he will definitely call or come to talk. This is guaranteed. All you have to do is keep playing your cards right and he will be begging you to take him back soon.

These are initial steps that you may find to be counter intuitive but are, nevertheless, very powerful when used

More Tips on How To Get An Ex Boyfriend Back After He Dumped You

Break up is a very stressful thing. No matter how much you try to get your ex off of your mind, you keep seeing his face and you are unable to focus on other things.

Your friends are your greatest source of support in these troubled times. If you have some very close friends, it would be best to stay in their company and just pour yourself out on them and you’ll feel some relief in having someone listen to you. They may not be able to get your ex back for you but you can count on them to hold your hand and give you the pep talks to keep going and to look forward to the future, be it with your ex or not.

Also, in the process of executing your plan of getting your ex back, you can get your friends involved in what needs to be done. For instance, as your plan calls for you to have a physical reinvention of yourself, you can have a friend make sure that your ex hears about your new looks, how good you look in your new sexy mini dress,  and your new activities. I’m sure you and your friends can devise something to make it look like one of your friends accidentally bump into your ex and in talking, your friend tells your ex how gorgeous you look now and what parties or gathering you’ve been to. Your ex will surely begin to make his move the moment he hears these and if he hasn’t called you up yet, he will definitely do so now. It will also be a good opportunity to find out what your ex is up to without you asking him.

Do not make your ex feel like he’s the victim here. It would appear like it if you’re stalking him and calling him non-stop, which is like domestic terrorism. This will totally turn him off and you risk losing any chance of getting him back.

Give your ex the impression that you’re okay with the break up and this will make him re-think his decision to leave you. His head will spin in disbelief when he notices your seeming lack of interest in him. Then he will start to try to win you back, since men can’t stand it when women lose interest in them.

Moreover, if you’ve been in the relationship for a long time, say over a year or more, a strong bond of love has developed between you and when you break up, it is natural for a period of longing for each other to ensue. This is the time when you have to be very cautious and make sure that your ex hears only good things about you. He will go crazy and will be dying to see you when you don’t call him, when he hears how busy you’ve been socially and how gorgeous you look, and when he notices how disinterested you seem to be in him..

If the relationship is built on love, then it can be saved. But then you might say that what worked for others might not work for you because your situation is different. While it may be true that every situation is different, all love and relationship issues have common elements and when analyzed, all boils down to a few differences that can be dealt with successfully. So, however different your situation is, the love, longing for each other, and the shared intimacy are constants that give you and your ex the feeling of wanting to be together again and giving the relationship another chance, no matter who or what caused the break up.

I suggest you use anything you can find useful in this article and apply that to your own case. I’m sure you’ll have a much better chance of getting your ex back with the advice and tips in this article.

Let me stress also the importance of self restraint or self discipline when you go to the first meeting or date with your ex after the break up. I can’t emphasize enough how vital it is to take things one step at a time and avoid jumping the gun. If you make a mistake by rushing things, this could spoil your chances of getting him back and he may lose interest if you make it too easy for him to get back with you.

Play hard to get (in moderation, lest he will think that you have moved on and he may decide to just give up and move on too) and don’t give in to his advances just yet, no matter how much you want to be with him. There will be plenty of time for that later when he is back in your arms for good.

holding together
Photo by Shaz Ni Fotogurafiku, on Flickr

The Help you Need in Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back After He Dumped You

If you’re like me when my ex boyfriend left me, you’ll need all the help you can get in getting him back. Follow the steps and tips laid out above. These are crucial in getting you in the right path to achieving your goal

The good news is, help is available. There are professionals who can help you tackle your problems and help you achieve your goal of getting back together with your ex. Many of these professionals have long years of experience dealing with relationship issues and conflicts, and they know exactly what to do to make a couple get back together.

There are books on relationship that were written for the sole purpose of making a relationship work and make couples fall in love with their partners over again.They give specific recommendations on what actions to take to make your ex go crazy over you and make him beg you to take him back.

You can get one of these e-books and use the tactics suggested to make your ex come back to you and fall in love with you all over again.

In the next page, I will have a review of the top 3 books on getting back with your ex and help you decide which one to get.let you see what people who used them and applied their techniques have to say.

Getting Back with My Ex After He Dumped Me - Recommended Resources

This section gives you a list and review of my recommended resources to help you get your ex back. I am giving you a list and a review of the top 3 e-books on relationship and how to get your ex back. These books have been used by many people around the world who claim that they got back together with their exes when they applied the methods suggested in each e-book.

Listed below are the titles and authors of these e-books and short description of what each has to offer. This section also includes comments from some users and what their experiences were in using the books.

1.  The Magic of Making Up by T. Dub Jackson

2.   Second Chance Romance - How to Win Your Ex Back by Jason Hicks 

3.    The M3 System - Making Up Made Easy by Michael Griswold

While the authors of these e-books have similar claims, it is best to analyze the method that each book is suggesting and weigh them out based on your own judgment and what their users say. You can use this review as a guide in picking the book that you feel will best help your situation.

So here they are:

1.         The Magic of Making Up  by T. Dub Jackson

This book is over 100 pages, and you'll be surprised to find out that it's not only recommended for girls who want to get their ex boyfriends back, but for boys as well who want to get back together with their ex girlfriends. It has been used by tens of thousand of people around the world who successfully got back together with their exes. The methods employed here are not only effective for unmarried or those in a relationship, but also for married couples who are going through a difficult time of separation and/or divorce.

T.W. Jackson has a very straightforward approach to the handling of a breakup. He just takes you by the hand and shows you what to do, step by step until you arrive at the conclusion and you are back with your ex.  Since it's a step by step course, it would be impossible to get his method wrong. There's no doubt that the tactics work,  whether you're a girl or a guy.
One very good thing also about this guide is that T. Dub included a video, right at the top of the website, about the first step that you should take to get your ex boyfriend back. The video also tells you the exact words to say to your ex when you first see each other after a long absence, and how to react in front of your ex.

Even if most of you girls reading this already made the big mistakes that T. Dub talks about in his short video, he provides you with all the tactics that you should use when you have pushed your ex away in the beginning! So you can really turn things around even if you did put yourself in a difficult position before. Very good stuff.

When you read this e-book by T. Dub Jackson,  you'll feel how nice a person he really is. You'll feel his genuine concern and he is really in it to help you guys. If you get this e-book, you can listen to his calm, reassuring voice on your iPod or whatever. You'll really enjoy listening to him, very charismatic.

Another great thing about this e-book, is that it's not just “theory”, he gives you tons of examples of letters that you can just copy, so you don’t have to create your own, you can just fill in the blanks in the examples he provides in the book.

I am amazed and have to admit that “The Magic Of Making Up” is a great system to get your ex back.

Here are what some users say about The magic of making Up:

"Dating Again!"

"Just wanted to say thank you soooooooooo much for the amazing advice in your book the magic of making up"

"Your book picked me up out of the mud when I was feeling the worst I ever felt in my life, and doing all the things you advised gave me a life line – now I am so much stronger and happier"

2. Second Chance Romance - How to Win Your Ex Back by Jason Hicks

Jason Hicks has created a STEP-BY-STEP guide for you to follow that will guide you through the entire process of winning your ex back. It's called Second Chance Romance and it’s available RIGHT NOW as an INSTANT download. That means you can be reading it within the next 5 minutes or so.

It's a Complete Step-By-Step System Proven To Win Ex Lover's Back Using Simple, Yet Powerfully Effective Psychological Tactics

Jason Hicks claim that he can help you get your ex back as fast and effortlessly as possible... no matter how hopeless the situation may seem, and not only that, but he'll make sure you KEEP them too.

My only concern with psychological tactics is that you will tend to be down right mind controlling. I don't know about you guys, but I would consider this almost illegal psychological mind control methods to be not ethical at all. But then again they work whether ethical or not. So here again, you have to use your own judgment if this is the method that you want to use to get your ex back. 

Here are what some users say about this e-book:

"Advice I Desperately Needed" - Katelyn

"Truly Amazing Concepts" - Rachel Hall

"Works For Long Distance Relationships Too"!

3.     M3 System -Making Up Made Easy by Michael Griswold

Michael Griswold has created a complete guide on Getting Your Ex Back which he says is Easier Than You Think: He based his guide on the key to discover the secrets of re-attraction, not just attraction!

The course is composed of several lessons divided into 8 videos. Michael Griswold focuses on what matters instead of what doesn't matter, on things that have to do with the break up, so you don't waste your effort on things that do not have anything to do with the break up, persuasion without trying to be convincing, and understanding and getting rid of toxic emotions that harm you personally and also the relationship. He also has a module on temper tantrums and relaxation and meditation, which would be very soothing. I find this really cool.

Here are what some people who used his books have to say:

"Your Stuff Works so WELL!!" - Carlos

"Your Program WORKS!" - Steve Ellis

"I just want to say thank you Michael" - La Vinchi